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TftD: The Paradox of Joy and Hurt
“The person who hurts you is often the person you run to, in order to feel better.” Image sourced from Moments Count Shine on…! /|\ Paul C Burr Author of Learn to Love and Be Loved in Return, 2012: a...
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Shame, Not-self-love, Is the First Step toward Mind Control
As a child I was taught to (do things that) please God and fear the Devil. By the age of 12, I allowed a cleric’s sermon to make me feel ashamed for all the ‘wrong’ things I did, thought and felt –...
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TftD: Truth Goes Hand in Hand with Trust but Ultimately Surpasses It
Honesty Being honest often requires courage. And courage is about letting go of fear and trusting yourself. Trust is the gap between what you know to be true and what you have faith in. And truth...
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TftD: The 4 Seeds of Negative Karma that Hold you Back
Extract from Defrag your Soul…. Only four things hold you back from that which your heart truly desires…. 1. Shame There is no shame in failure but failure is endemic to shame. 2....
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TftD: Changing your Character, Changes your Life
Image courtesy of Blaze Institute …All that happens is the result of character; the only manner in which the destiny can be changed is to change the character….. the chart of birth….is merely a map of...
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The Currency of All Relationships: Truth, Trust and Passion
Shine on…! /|\ Paul C Burr Business/Personal Performance Coach & Author Follow @paulburr Filed under: Business, Coaching, Healing, Leadership, Love, Marketing, Personal, Pitfalls I've Fallen Into,...
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Successful Business Relationships: The Logic, Premium and Legacy
My latest booklet, Quick Guide III – How to Bridge the Pillars of Successful Relationships (QG3), focuses on complex, inter- and intra- corporate, many-people-to-many-people, business relationships....
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The Decisions You Make, Are They Borne of Love or Fear?
“We change the map of life itself by changing our attitude towards it.” from The Mind of the Druid by E G Howe (Probably the most profound book I’ve ever read. I’ve read it 4 times and I’m still...
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Quick Guides to Business – new page created
I’ve released a new page in this website devoted to the Quick Guides to Business I’m writing. It will contain links to extracts that you will hopefully find interesting and helpful. Your feedback about...
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Effectiveness = Motivation x Confidence x Competence x Curiosity (Mindfulness...
Extract from Quick Guide II: How to Spot, Mimic and Become a Top Salesperson Most sales training I’ve come across focuses primarily on developing a salesperson’s skills or competencies, for example:...
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How to Be at your Peak in Every Key Meeting
Extract from Quick Guide IV – A Scorecard that Accounts for Mindfulness in Business Top performers do three essential things to be at their peak. 1. Clarify your outcomes for the meeting in hand and...
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The Game of Life
Extract from Quick Guide IV – A Scorecard that Accounts for Mindfulness in Business. Adapted from Druid wisdom (ref: Light and Life, a series of booklets written by David Loxley, Chief Druid, The Druid...
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The Mystique to the Game of Life
Extracts from my forthcoming booklet (now in draft form, being proof-read): The Mystique to the Game of Life (and Unrequited Love) #Mindfulness in Relationships Series, No 1 Have you ever loved someone...
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A Meditation on Unrequited Love
Love is Not-love Until… The battles I have fought to have you choose love. I have mustered the elements in vain. With swords, wands and wealth, I hold out the chalice of love to seal our bond. Yet I...
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Magic is…
…Something created out of nothing, the nothingness created from having no fear. When you release all your fear, all that remains is joy and wellbeing. Can there be anything more magical to life than...
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Mindfulness Case Study: Unrequited Love
Extract from The Mystique to the Game of Life (and Unrequited Love) from Amazon US, UK and worldwide. Pre-reading to explain some of the terms used, see blog, The Game of Life Client Case Study of...
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How to Track your Commitment to a Relationship – Personal or Business
A subset of an exercise, on building outcomes for a relationship, from my book… The Mystique to the Game of Life (and Unrequited Love). Pick a relationship you’re in, business or personal… Bring into...
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In Your Business (or Personal) Life, What is Mindfulness?
Extracts from Quick Guide V: How to Apply Mindfulness to Business. Mindfulness Mindfulness means moment-to-moment, non-judgmental awareness. It is cultivated by refining our capacity to pay attention,...
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Full Moon in Gemini – 17 December 2013
Should I stay or should I go? At about 9.36am GMT there’s a full Moon in Gemini. Reflect, especially over the last two weeks, on all the things over which you have mixed emotions, and in Gemini, leave...
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Paradise Is An Inside Job.
Who’s fooling whom? Judge not the paradise of fools. For their paradise is not yours. Even if only a fool would find joy there. Let them step naively (knavely). Let your and their joy be one. (Inspired...
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